
Day 4: Real Estate Networking Events – Build a Referral Network That Lasts [2025 Edition]
Day 4: Attend Networking Groups – Build Your Real Estate Referral Network
Welcome to Day 4 of the 12x12 Agent Fast Start Challenge! Today, you’ll take bold steps to expand your sphere of influence by participating in three networking events. By connecting with other professionals and local business owners, you’ll form valuable relationships that could lead to future referrals and collaborative opportunities.
This day is about visibility, approachability, and follow-through.
Today's Objectives
Attend three networking group events
Engage in authentic conversations
Follow up with new contacts
1. Attend Three Networking Groups
Your task is to attend one morning, one mid-day, and one evening networking group to maximize exposure to different groups of professionals.
How to Prepare:
Search on Meetup, Eventbrite, local Chamber of Commerce listings, or business groups
Register in advance and confirm all event details
Dress professionally and bring your business cards
Focus on being a friendly, helpful presence—not just a “real estate agent”
Time Commitment:
Morning Event: 2–3 hours
Mid-Day Event: 2–3 hours
Evening Event: 2–3 hours
Why It Matters:
Multiple events allow you to engage with diverse audiences. Expanding your referral network can drive consistent lead flow from trusted professionals.
2. Engage and Build Relationships
Don’t treat this like a sales pitch. These events are about learning who others are, what they do, and how you can support them.
Engagement Tips:
Smile and approach others first
Share a 30-second personal intro, then shift the focus to them
Ask questions about their business and goals
Listen more than you speak
Exchange contact details if there’s a natural connection
Key Reminders:
Be authentic and relatable
Avoid “pitching” real estate unless they ask
Make brief notes after each conversation for personalized follow-up
Why It Matters:
People refer business to those they trust. Trust starts with a real, human connection—not a transaction.
3. Follow Up with New Connections
The fortune is in the follow-up. Reinforce relationships and show you care by reaching out post-event.
Steps to Follow Up:
Send a personalized message that references your chat
Express genuine interest in their work or life
Mention your open house casually, only if appropriate
Add them to your CRM for future engagement
Follow-Up Example:
“Hi [Name], I really enjoyed meeting you at [Event Name]. I loved our conversation about [topic]. Let’s definitely keep in touch—I'd love to hear more about your business.”
Time Commitment: 1–2 hours
Why It Matters:
People remember those who follow up. It signals professionalism, attention to detail, and a true desire to build a relationship—not just sell.
Daily Task Summary
Morning Networking Event: 2–3 hours
Mid-Day Networking Event: 2–3 hours
Evening Networking Event: 2–3 hours
Follow-Up Messages: 1–2 hours
Total Time Commitment: 7–11 hours
Morning & Evening Bonus Tasks
Morning:
Call new Facebook leads
Respond to overnight DM replies
Time: 1–2 hours
Evening:
Call same-day leads
Continue DM conversations
Time: 1–2 hours
Looking Ahead: Day 5
Tomorrow, it's time to hit the streets—you’ll door knock 100 homes near your open house to build buzz and connect with potential neighbors and buyers.
Let’s get ready for Day 5: Door Knocking to 100 Houses.